kya aapse thik se baat nahi ki jati? kya Hamesha aapki shikayat ki jati hai? kya Aapke dharma,pasand aur icchhaao ka apmaan kiya jata hai? kya sharirik, maukhik, yonik, mansik aur arthik roop se aap par atyachar kiya jata hai? kya aksar aapko kisi na kisi baat par dhamki di jati hai? kya aapki manyatao ka majaak udaya jata hai? kya ghar ya bahar sabke saamne aap ka apmaan kiya jata hai? kya ichcha ke khilaf aapko kuch aisa karne ko kaha jata hai jo aap karna nahi chahati? kya aap ise rokna chahte hai?agar iska jawab koi purush de to aksar ye kehte hai ye to har ghat me hota hai aur is bare me ham kya kar sakte hai. aur dekhne wali baat hai ke jyadatar mahilaye bhi yahi kehti hai. yadi wo koi mahila ho to kehti hai ye to meri maa, dadi unki dadi aur unki dadi ke saath bhi hota tha, takriban har mahila ke saath chote ye bade paimane par ek ya ek se jyada baate hoti hai iska matlab ye to nahi ke hamare saath hinsa ho rahi hai. pati ki maar khana ya saas ki gaali khana jaise riwaj cha